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Sometimes in life we come across people who have no idea how to deal with the trials and tribulations that are thrown their way. So in turn they clam up, get frustrated, and turn their anger to the people who care about them the most.

Being a former victim of this, I learned that I had to either communicate with the person who was having a hard time dealing, and make them aware that, yes, I understand your frustration, "HOW CAN I HELP?", if possible. Usually they've become so frustrated they have no idea where to even start in answering your question. So...what do you do then...step back, and let them be superman/woman. If the problem involves you, do your part, and ONLY your part!!! Give them space to figure things out. Don't hover, or nag. When the time is right or when they choose they will share their feelings and or resolutions with you.

Looking back on past relationships and even family problems I realized people deal with their problems differently and naggin them or rushing the results makes it harder for them to actually deal.


I tend to be a person who likes details, If I'm involved in something or with someone, I wanna know the details of everything, so that I can prepare myself if changes need to be made. Some people are willing to give the details of your involvement in their lives, and others arent! If they are not willing to give you the details or how they plan to involve you in their life,re-evaluate the situation. However, they themselves may not have figured out yet exactly how you fit in, where they want to go with you or if you even belong.

So with all that said if you find yourself frustrated because of someone else's frustration, just give them room to breathe until they have it figured it out and talk calmly!